That's a lot of letters, right? PBEM stands for "Play By Email," and RPG stands for "Role-Playing Game."
In 1994, on AOL, I co-founded a Star Trek role-playing game soon after learning about them in chat rooms. I was a Star Trek fanatic, as a kid, and I loved the utopian vision of the future mixed with the sense of cool, calm competency that everyone on the show gave off amidst the vast interplay of species in the galaxy.
That game grew into a community that I still have a hard time believing exists to this day, and which I've led for over 30 years.
Over the years I've watched people go through many phases of life, meet fellow members and get married, have kids, and even divorce. It's been the privilege of a lifetime to lead and watch all of this happen.
Beyond all that, the game provided me with a testing ground for leadership, community, and technology like perhaps nothing else could have.